Activities
Let your hair run wild: Recommended
I'm not a high maintenance person about my appearance, but I left my dorm with hair that was about 40% damp. And it became all flippy as it dried. It kinda made me laugh.
Kick a door open when no one is looking: Highly Recommended
Not out of anger, out of awesome.
Struggles
Already fantasizing.
Fantasy and escapism are huge issues for me. I use them to fill my own love tank, instead of loving and receiving love from others. I fantasized about getting back together, and him trying to get back together with me, but I'm in talks with another guy, so he's jealous, other guys asking me out and me nobly turning them down, etc....
My roommate and best friend Jacquelyn reminded me that these are normal (as a professional single herself), but it's what I do with these fantasies that matter. If I continue to dwell on them, then I'm in the wrong. If I take my heart to God in prayer, then I've done nothing wrong. I shouldn't condemn myself for having these desires, but I am responsible for how I respond to them.
Thanks for reading,
Avery
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